How to Lead a Business Without Losing Yourself

How to Lead a Business Without Losing Yourself

by Daniel Richards in Dan's Blog

Are You Climbing the Wrong Mountain?

We've all heard the saying: be careful of which mountain you decide to climb, because when you get to the top, it might not be what you thought it was. As leaders, we're often encouraged to keep climbing—chasing the next promotion, more money, or more status. But while this path can lead to success, it can also lead you to a destination that doesn't align with what truly matters to you.

I’ve lived this myself, and I’ve seen countless friends and colleagues experience the same thing. When I was building my business, D-STILL, I threw everything at it for a decade. In my head, I was building something for the future, believing that short-term pain would lead to long-term gain. I was wrong.

While I had a lot of fun, I paid a high price. My health and fitness suffered, my relationships weren't as strong, and I missed out on valuable time with my family. My identity was wrapped up in my business, and when I had no choice but to close the company, it was devastating.

This lesson taught me everything. It taught me that clarity on what's truly important to you—as a person—must come first.

How to Lead a Business Without Losing Yourself

You don't have to choose between professional success and personal fulfilment. It’s a matter of intentionally designing a life that supports both.

  1. Get Crystal Clear on Your Priorities. Stop and ask yourself: What truly gives you energy? What drains it? What brings you joy outside of work? Before you can lead a team, you must first lead yourself.
  2. Design Your Ideal Week. This is a game-changer. Don't let your calendar control you; you control it. I start by pre-scheduling my most important personal priorities first: my health, my time with family and friends, and my own mental and physical well-being. Only then do I build in my work commitments.
  3. Set Boundaries. Once your calendar is set, protect it fiercely. This is the hardest part, but it’s essential for showing up as the best version of yourself. I clearly label my work as "energy driving" or "energy draining" so I can be intentional about where I focus my time and energy.

Time is the most valuable asset you have, and you must treat it that way. The amazing thing is, when you have clarity on what's important to you personally, you become a more effective, impactful, and authentic leader professionally. The key is to structure your time around what matters to you.

If you’re ready to get clear on your own path and start building a life you’re truly proud of, let’s talk.

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